Feeling stuck in your relationship? Ready to move on? But can't get closure? I can help. After all, I wrote the book!
In a literal sense, the word closure indicates something drawing to a close, such as the end of a romantic relationship, the end of a professional relationship, or, most heartbreaking of all, the end of a life. But closure is more complex than that. In fact, sometimes closure is not about an end at all, but rather about bringing some kind of a resolution to an issue that seems to come up all the time.
It is human to need closure. Sometimes we find the closure we need, sometimes not, and sometimes the healthiest closure is to choose to walk away.
“I have to have some kind of closure,” a client said to me after a sudden breakup. “Why won’t he give that to me?”
I’ve had many similar conversations with clients who are ending a marriage or facing major life changes. Have you felt that need for closure eating away at you lately? Working with Rippling. Stay connected with us!
Dr. Gary McClain is an educator, psychotherapist, relationship coach, and author with a practice in New York City. The focus of his practice is adults in transition – romantic and family relationships, health and caregiving, work and career, and loss and grief. Effective communication, difficult conversations, and closure are topics that he frequently explores with his clients.
Do you have a question about finding closure? Dr. Gary can help.
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In this empathetic and insightful guide, Dr. McClain explains why the promise of closure is so appealing—and why it’s not always all it’s cracked up to be. He walks readers through what closure is (and isn’t), the reasons we want it, how to seek it in healthy and productive ways, and ways to move forward when you don’t get the closure you’re looking for.
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